You learned to walk or ride a bicycle by falling down. Olympic athletes fail too many times to count on their way to the gold medal. So it is with anything you want to achieve. Spiritual resiliency is fundamental to a growth in holiness to which every Christian is called. But along the way, we will encounter much failure. That is not a reason to quit, at all, but the very reason to keep going! We learn one more way in which not to do it and as complex as our natures are, there are certainly a lot of ways we need to learn how not to do it.
But the real focus on developing spiritual resiliency as a trait, and enduring part of our being, is the celebration of our little successes along the way. Focus on those times when you overcame the temptation to give up and trusted God, remaining joyful and optimistic in the midst of a trial. One can even begin with small annoyances as I alluded to earlier, such as delays in traffic. Begin with the small matters, pay attention to them and reinforce the successes. No jet pilot, astronaut, professional athlete or saint achieved what they did without both learning from the mistakes and working hard on reinforcing the successes.
‘They will know we are Christians by our love’, by our love, joy, peace and serenity in every circumstance through our spiritual resilience.